Friday, November 1, 2013

My second birthday in California....


Today I turned 51. Did I say that out loud? In so many ways I feel like that is so old and also so young. I have so many things I haven't done and have done a lot of the things I've wanted to do. I am in no way the person I want to be. But happier with my life than I thought I'd be.
God has changed me this past year that I have lived in California. I can't really explain how. I hope it is for the better, to see things more the way He see's them,. To be content in all things. 

I made a list in my journal this morning of things I want for myself this next year in my life. Things like kinder, friendlier, healthier and fit. A better daughter, mother and wife. A good grandma to my unborn grand-baby. But most of all is to be closer to God, and closer to his people. And to bring people closer to Him.
I don't want to hurt people with my words or actions. I want to show love, Gods love and my love for them.
So I am asking God for help and I hope my friends and family will help me too! This past year has been a good year, a fun year, a sad year and a lonely year. This next year is going to be even better, they always are!



Tuesday, October 1, 2013

Kale!?

So tomorrow is Nat'l Kale Day....I have ate plant based for over a year and a half, and just this week I found a recipe for kale salad that I LOVE! I have tried kale all kinds of ways and most of the time I just didn't care for it. But this salad is to die for...and hubby loved it too!

Kale is a super food...(so I hear)



So here is the recipe....

KALE SALAD

3 cups kale chopped up small
tomato diced
1 garlic clove
1 TBS Dijon mustard
1 TBS maple syrup or agave
1 ts balsamic vinegar
slat and pepper to taste


Chopped up the kale add to a bowl, mix mustard, syrup and vinegar. Add minced garlic.
Mix dressing with the kale use your HAND and massage it! Yup it breaks down the kale a bit and gets rid of the bitter flavor... Now let it sit at room temperature for 20-30 minutes
Add diced tomatoes, salt and pepper
Enjoy!

It tastes even better after it is refrigerated. 

Try it and let me know if you like it.....

Sunday, September 29, 2013

Weekend.....

Hubby is in Utah this weekend doing some winterizing at our house. So I have just been shopping, watching movies and decorating.
Every month I have changed my fireplace mantel. It has been fun and I wish I'd taken pictures. But I haven't until now....

So here is Fall

I will try to remember to take pictures when I change it next month.

Tuesday, September 24, 2013

One Year...

It has been a busy few weeks. My son and his wife came for a visit. We had a great time with them. I miss them so much!

This past weekend marked our one year anniversary of living in California.....
What to say about it? The first thing that comes to mind is how lonely I've been. I didn't think moving to a place with so many people could be so lonely. I have not made any friends and don't really know how. We have our niece and nephew (thank you God), and hubby has "work" friends. But that's it! We have some people we talk to at church some times and say hi to some neighbors. But no one to call for help or to hang out with.
I think the thing I've learned from this is to value the friendships you have. I miss that I can't just call one of my girlfriends and go to lunch or coffee. Or do a craft day. I miss the ladies bible studies I had at my home. I miss my kids. I miss my church family!
I've also learned that where ever you are God is there. He is still here in the morning to talk to, he is still here when I am lonely. I'm not sure I could of done this move without knowing God has this! What a comfort!
I know when I get back to Utah, I will spend more time working on friendships, more time with family and more time reaching out to people that are alone....

Monday, September 9, 2013

I am a sinner...forgiven

This morning I was looking over facebook and I came across a funny that a friend posted that really has bothered me. Most of the time if I see something offensive or political  I just ignore it. But this one I commented on and I can't seem to let it go. So I will say what I think here....

 The funny said  "You call yourself a Christian, but Jesus wasn't a snob who judged people for their imperfections. You may wanna get your bible out and check up on that." I replied "Christians are sinners...only difference we are forgiven".

The first thing that came to mind was, that this joke was being a snob to a Christian's imperfection. We don't become sinless once we follow Christ. We still  do and think the same as a none believer, we struggle to live up to a world that thinks we should act like God. We are sinners that is why Jesus died for us. We need the Holy spirit to empower us. We need Gods Grace! Even others Christians will throw in our faces our imperfection, with things like "where is your grace". I don't give much grace...Jesus does that. I need to die daily to sin and that is not always easy. I constantly have to ask the Holy Spirit to change my heart and actions. We want to be like Jesus, but we will never be Jesus. On this earth we will never be perfect. But the good news is we do have the blood of Christ to cover that sin and one day in front of God we will be forgiven. Something we Do Not deserve.

Paul said in Romans 7 14-25

14 We know that the law is spiritual; but I am unspiritual, sold as a slave to sin. 15 I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do. 16 And if I do what I do not want to do, I agree that the law is good. 17 As it is, it is no longer I myself who do it, but it is sin living in me. 18 For I know that good itself does not dwell in me, that is, in my sinful nature.[c] For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. 19 For I do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do—this I keep on doing. 20 Now if I do what I do not want to do, it is no longer I who do it, but it is sin living in me that does it.
21 So I find this law at work: Although I want to do good, evil is right there with me. 22 For in my inner being I delight in God’s law; 23 but I see another law at work in me, waging war against the law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin at work within me. 24 What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body that is subject to death? 25 Thanks be to God, who delivers me through Jesus Christ our Lord!
So then, I myself in my mind am a slave to God’s law, but in my sinful nature[d] a slave to the law of sin.

So no Jesus wasn't a snob....But I am some times. 
I am forgiven

Wednesday, September 4, 2013

Anniversary Weekend Fun....

We spent the whole weekend having fun for our anniversary. Hubby has Mondays off so with the Labor Day holiday it gave him a four day weekend! So we played and ate (a lot of junk food).


Friday night we went to Disneyland and watched the Fireworks! And we rode on the Teacups....I never go on the teacups, but it was fun and we didn't make it spin.


We drove up to Glendora on Monday to get a donut at the Donut Man on Route 66. But it was Closed for Labor Day!
This is what they have....So I guess we go another time.
http://www.thedonutmanca.com/





So  we ate breakfast at a cafe across the street. We sat at the counter.
Not sure we have ever done that before.










On Tuesday we went back to Disneyland. We got Happy Anniversary buttons!



 And  shared a muffin and blended mocha....





 We had a nice lunch and when we were finished and very stuffed the waiter brought us an anniversary dessert....Mickey Shaped Beignets!!!! 


Yes we ate all of it.... We did Not eat vegan this weekend, And by the end of the day I did not feel well. But I had a great time with my love. Here's to another 27 years together!

Thursday, August 29, 2013

27 years seems like a long time...

On Monday September 2nd my hubby and I will celebrate our 27th wedding anniversary. That is a long time. It does not seem like that long. I can honestly say we have had a happy marriage. Not to say we haven't had some rough patches or hard times because we have. But for the most part we like to be together, we are on the same page about most everything, we respect each other, we laugh, and we love each other.
When you say the words "love each other" all kinds of things can come to mind. That giddy love of a teenager, or romantic love, or that desperate love that you can't breath if they are away. I don't think we have had any of these. Our love has come from a place I could never had thought I could or would have. It comes from God and His love for us. 

1 Corinthians 13 4-7 says:

 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 

 Shortly after we were married we gave our lives to Christ. These verses are how we try to treat each other. But not on our own but through the Holy Spirit. On our own we could not to this. Jesus is the center of our marriage. The one thing we have always keep in the mind is the last part of verse 5, "it keeps no record of wrongs." We all sin and make mistakes. We don't need to be reminded of something we did or said years ago. We never let a disagreement linger. We just don't like to be mad at each other. If we do have a big fight one of us usually starts laughing and then we say sorry and we're done. To me nothing is that important to not try and see his point of view. The thing is we are on the same side, it's "us" not him and me. He has my back and I have his!

I feel very blessed to have been able to spend 27 years married to my friend, partner and soul mate. Together we have raised two wonderful sons, have had a ton of fun and more laughs than I though was possible. God is Good!

Thursday, August 22, 2013

Be careful that you do not forget the Lord!

It has been almost a year that we have been living in California. I have changed within, some negative and some positive. I have always had fears, fear of flying, fear of heights, fear of big bridges over water. (don't even ask how fearful I am of that one!). But they were not to a point of anxiety. But as soon as we move out of our house the anxiety started. I started to wake in the night with fear of what we were doing or would have sudden heart palpitations. On the first day my hubby started his job I woke with shingles. That was not fun. I'm sure it was from the stress of the move and being so anxious about it. Also leaving my kids and friends and the place I had lived my entire life. Through this I started moving away from God in various ways.  Most of my anxiety has subsided now that I've turned it over to God. But I do have a hard time going out alone and driving. I have to remember God has me, and I am safe. I am thankful God puts these verses on my heart when I feel anxious scared or alone.

Philippians 4:6

Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.

Psalm 121:1-2

I lift up my eyes to the mountains—
    where does my help come from?
My help comes from the Lord,
    the Maker of heaven and earth



On the positive, I have learned not to take for granted friendships and church family.
Those relationship can take a long time to develop, so hold on the them. I have learned to enjoy life. Get out and have some fun when you can. I love to ride my bike, (I never did before). I really like going to baseball games. Who would of thought! 

But most of all, I've learned that you can forget the Lord ....
I had forgot to trust Him, live for Him, love Him, worship Him, spend time with Him, serve Him

So be careful that you do not forget the Lord! 
I have been meditating on Deuteronomy 6 lately, read it if you have the time. :)


Wednesday, July 31, 2013

My God will provide all my needs...

I am thanking God today for His provision. My hubby is part of the government furlough. One day off every week for eleven weeks. That is a 20% pay cut. But praise God we can live on that amount of money. It is just a little less than what we made in Utah. (As of today they are talking of cutting it to fewer days. Another praise)

I have always been frugal, or as my kids call me cheap! Early in our marriage we planned for me to be a stay at home mom. So we made sure to live on only one income. Even when I did work off and on over the years we still lived on one income. We have tried to pay cash when we could. Buy used or on sale when ever possible. I have always cooked from scratch and up until we moved we rarely ate out. We have traveled and stayed in state parks and slept in our van to save on hotel costs. These have been our funnest vacations!

I don't feel we have went without either. We just make sure we have the money before we buy something or go on vacation. I believe all things are a gift from God including our money. I believe to live on credit is not good stewardship of our money. After all buying on credit is buying something with money you don't have yet. And may never have. We have no guarantee of having a job tomorrow. In our 26 years of marriage hubby has  been twice without  a job. But by Gods grace we got through and He provided all our needs. This has also made us more careful with our money for times like these when it is out of our control. I'm praying for my friends that are losing income right now also that God will provide for them and they will have enough.

Some ways I save....

1. Buy used or only on sale (this is clothing, home furnishing, cars)
2. No store bought junk food (chips, cookies, soda, candy) I bake cookies, and donuts. We air pop popcorn and drink lots of water.
3. Turn the heat down and wear a sweater...
4. We don't go to the movies (Redbox or Netflix)
5. Grow a garden and can (when I was in Utah, now farmers market weekly)
6. Basic cable (we never did watch all those channels, and we share my sons Netflix)
7. Car insurance...Shop around. For years we over payed!
8. Before we buy we ask, do we need it or want it?
9. I write out a budget...Every now and then I will keep track of all our spending and see what I can cut out.
10. We just don't buy big ticket items.. Boats, trailers, atv's...But we did put in a pool. Hubby did most of the work and we paid half the price of someone else doing it!

Friday, July 26, 2013

Why I eat the way I do...

I come from a long line of unhealthy family members on my fathers side. And you guessed it I have those genes. Let me go through the list of what I know. My dad had high cholesterol, high blood pressure, diabetes, he had a stint put in his heart in his 50's had a stroke at the age of 62 and died at 70 of a sudden heart attack. My grandfather had a heart attack at age 53 and died from a heart attack at age 55. His mother my great-grand mother had diabetes and died I think late 50's early 60's. Her mother died young also, but I'm not sure what from.
My cholesterol started to rise in my late 20's and by the time I was in my 30's I was on medication. So almost  twenty years of medication. Around 45 my blood pressure was high enough for medication also.
I had always thought in the back of my mind I will most likely have diabetes too.

But that all changed one day in February 2012. I watch the documentary Fork Over Knives on Netflix. It is about a large study on animal proteins and their connection to heart disease and cancers. http://www.forksoverknives.com/about/synopsis/ And how a plant based whole food (vegan) diet can prevent and in some cases reverse these diseases. It was so good. I had hubby watch and he wanted to try it for 90 days (his blood pressure was high also and he was on meds too.)  I only wanted to try for 60 days...lol
So we were off. Out went the meat, dairy, eggs, and  all the processed foods. In came the almond milk, beans, brown rice, quinoa, fruit and veggies! In the first month we both felt better and we both had our blood pressure going back to normal . In fact I was still on medication and mine got so low I was dizzy. So my doctor told me to stop taking the pills! We had both lost weight and we were on our way to a new way of eating. the 90 days were now past and we were not going back. We were excited to see how our health would change and what new things we could eat.

I'll admit I was pretty excited about my blood pressure going back to normal in weeks of changing my eating and who wouldn't be with the list of disease I could be facing. I felt it was the magic pill we are always looking for.
 I don't miss meat at all! Hamburgers and cheese was my food of choice, but now I'd much rather have a big bowl of brown rice with black beans, onion and peppers sauteed with maybe some guacamole.
I'm not going to lie, we don't always stick to it. It is hard if you eat out to find food that doesn't have animal products in them. Everything has meat or dairy. Did you know even McDonald's french fries has beef in them, Yup they add it so they tastes better! Who knew. I never eat meat, but I do have an egg or some cheese once in a while. :( I always feel crappy after with stomach issues.

What we didn't expect from this new way of eating was the hostility, rudeness and strangers questioning us about our food choices. I'm not sure why someone would get so worked up about how I eat and me telling them the results. I only want to share my experiences. Not change anyone. (at some point I might tell about a few of these encounters)

My cholesterol is still high, my body just makes to much. But I'm not worried I rarely eat anything with cholesterol in it. (cholesterol only comes from animals). My blood pressure is perfect and my blood sugars are great. I am no longer afraid of diabetes or the other health problems my dad had. I love this way of eating, it is simple and cheaper and I have so much fun looking for new things to cook. And I really love vegetables now!            
                                                                                                   
simplified chipotle veggie burrito bowl

veggie burrito bowl. I could eat this everyday!


Tuesday, July 23, 2013

Surprise

I've had a busy, fun and awesome week.
First my brother and family were in town for a Disneyland vacation and we met them for dinner last Tuesday night at Ruby's in Huntington Beach. It was great to hang out and catch up. 
Then on Wednesday night the best surprise ever. My son came to visit! My hubby told me he was taking a guy from work to the airport, but he was really picking up my son. I had No idea.... So we did all kinds of things over the weekend. We went to New Port beach and Balboa Island. On Friday we went to Universal Studios with my Brother and family. And to an Angels baseball game Saturday night. So much fun.(I am becoming a big fan of baseball!) It was so good to be with my son and so hard to have him leave. I miss him and the rest of my family so much. 


Balboa Island



I even look like a fan with the hat.

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Not your mom's tuna!

The funnest part about eating plant-based for me and hubby is trying new recipes. This past weekend we tried and Loved a Vegan "Tuna" sandwich recipe. The question is what do you use to replace tuna fish? Garbanzo Beans!  



Here is what you need.....






1 15oz can garbanzo bean drained and rinsed well
1 cup celery
1/2 lemon juiced 
1 teas. lemon zest
1 teas. agave syrup
2 Tbs. vegan mayo or to taste
garlic powder, salt and pepper to taste
a pinch of cayenne
1 tbs. crushed nori sheets (adds that fishy flavor)

In a bowl mash beans with a fork (my hubby did this and though it was important to get the tuna texture by making sure all the beans go through the fork)
Add celery
lemon juice and zest
agave
spices, nori, and mayo

and eat! 

You can also add nutritional yeast,  or dill pickles !


Tuesday, July 16, 2013

Something used...

The first weekend we were here, my niece and nephew asked if we wanted to go with them to yard sales. It is something that we have always loved and here in California they are year round. So for most every Saturday we have got up early went and picked up the niece and nephew and drove around looking for signs with arrows pointing us where to go.  (We also get breakfast along the way, yum yum.) My latest obsession is Globes....You can see them all over in decor on Pinterest. So far I have bought five and a yo-yo with a map look.

This light up Globe is my favorite....It was the cheapest at $2.00, SCORE!
We found a web-site to determine the age of  globes. http://www.replogleglobes.com/howOldIsYourGlobe.php
My large one is from the 90's and the medium one is the 60's .
I have even bought a Leap-Frog globe at the Goodwill!. I think I want to start looking for cameras now.....

Monday, July 15, 2013

Here I am.....

So here I am starting a blog....I have wanted to write one for a long time. But like most things in my life, fear puts a stop to it. In this case fear I'll sound stupid. Fear no one will read it or WILL read it. The list goes on and on. But here i am writing!  As we have been in California I have learned a lot about myself and my fears. Just moving was such a big step for me. I want to share "me" with my family and friends so I can feel more connected.  I also want to share my love for Jesus, my love for cooking vegan, my love for yard sales and crafts I might be doing, But most of all our journey in getting back home to Utah.  So here I am....